Amazing social science
I want to recommend this blog, first because is written by a female researcher, second because it is just really good!
http://yourejustadumbass.wordpress.com/2014/03/25/what-people-dont-tell-you-about-dating-the-wrong-types/
I guess we all had had experiences with "Dumb asses", aka "players". The kind of guy/girl who treat you as a prince/princess in order to get you, and after they spill the spell on you, and you are enchanted with the bright words... well, they just get bored and left you. The other worse "Dumb asses" are the ones who continue the flirting after the situation is over, just to keep you in the list. like sending you messages about how gorgeous you were looking when they saw you the last time or how much they miss you.. even if they never really contact you in person... or you already have somebody else!
The last case not only indicated completely disrespectful for you and for you current partner, but also to themselves because they do not realized that it was over. It is a sad situation when a relationship that was apparently going great turn to be just illusions and lies. However, it shows our strength and wit, to move over, forgive yourself for being silly sometimes and fall in some dangerous zones... and finally be smarter next time: just date smarter!
Wow! Thanks so much for sharing my article and blog Jesi!!! It was a true pleasure meeting you! You are so inspiring!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words!!! Have a great weekend!